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Submitted by livizzle on Thu, 08/08/2013 - 9:31pm

I am so sick of DH's attitude as of late. I'm not sure whether this has anything to do with him not seeing/speaking to skids or MIL calling him more than usual or what, BUT HE'S DRIVING ME NUTS.

So far this evening, I have been treated like crap because I 1.) Did not want to go to Sonic with him to get ice cream because I am on a diet (the same diet I've been on for a month, it's not like he didn't know). I told him that I didn't want to go, and BOOM! That turned in to me not wanting to spend time with him. 2.) Asked him to turn the bright light off in the living room.

I want to cry.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Fri, 08/09/2013 - 9:12am

My DH has been acting like this lately. Like I seriously dread being around him. It's like he gets annoyed with all of these other people/things (skids, BMs, non paying tenants, idiot friends, chronic pain etc) but he takes it out on me (mostly) and BS3 (some.)

He goes to a pain management clinic once a week and they do all kinds of things including counseling. He said he told the counselor the other day that he "puts Daizy on a pedestal to everyone, but then in real life treats her like shit" I was like, yeah! finally he is seeing how horribly he has been acting, then later that night? Dickhead is back. UGH!

I told DH that he has been being a dickhead to me, and I haven't even done anything. He said that he thinks he does it to me because he knows I won't fight back. True, I am very non-confrontational. I normally won't engage in arguing or fighting with him and I think that drives him nuts sometimes. One night last week, he was trying to me to fight with him and I just turned around and walked out the door. Sorry, dude, don't have time for your shit. He got all huffy because I "flipped my hair and walked away" whatever, go pick a fight with your precious SD15 if you want so badly to fight with someone (like THAT will never happen) because this chick is outta here!

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Fri, 08/09/2013 - 10:26am

I feel for you. I hate to say this but he probably secretly blames YOU for the PASout. I know Guilty Daddy blames me for the 4-6 year period (so far) that he hasn’t had a formal entitlement session, err I mean “visitation” from his spawn of Satan.

Over the past ten years I’ve gone from “crazy in love” to can’t stand the SIGHT of him. He’s now a raging, violent alcoholic that is permanently depressed about the PASout (although he pretends not to by saying “my no-good kids. . .blah blah”)

He's lost about 90% of his looks and is aging BADLY even though I'm eight years OLDER than he is. He also likes to sabotage my exercise/diet routines (misery loves company?)

And of course, the only way I will ever rid myself of him is if he is either dead or in prison permanently. :barf:

Sooner or later the Disney/guilt driven biodad will get around to blaming SM so I’ve found.
(((HUGS)))

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Submitted by clydella on Fri, 08/09/2013 - 10:26am

"Sooner or later the Disney/guilt driven biodad will get around to blaming SM so I’ve found."
^^^^

This is what I'm scared of, when is DH going to start to blame me about SD. So far he's been pretty good about realizing SD problems are not because of me, but because of her. I've made it as clear to him as I can that I hope he & SD have a relationship, and a good one, but's it's one that I don't care to be involved in.