When I asked for the keys back for my apartment, and that DH cannot hide from SD15 here at my place anymore... I ended up letting him have the keys back. I gave in to his little jabs. He would say something like "Well, you better lock the door since I don't have a key" or "Better open the door since I don't have a key.." Every time was like a jab in the heart. I take to heart the things my husband says and it hurt when he pointed it out. Thing is... he knows it and doesn't care.

He has now had two appointments with his therapist/parenting coach. I hope he continues. I hope he works hard on the things they discuss.

He has not put money into my account like he promised. It's sitting in our joint account that I don't touch because all bills are paid out of it. I could transfer the money myself but I want him to recognize and feel the brunt of having a second household.

Most of the time I wish I didn't love him, then he wouldn't have such a hold over me.