stupidest reason to stay!
Did you know it's not just having a baby as a tactic to keep a man to stay it's puppies too? Hahahahahaha I'm sorry my dd just reveled to me her dad tells people "I had a dog once but it was kept from me after the divorce" Lol wtf look my mom rescued a puppy, he was so cute and I fostered it, exh decided we could keep it and he was cheating on me so we divorced because he couldn't be faithful I gave him the choice psycho bff neighbor whore or me his response "you can't tell me who to be friends with!"
But I tried to use a puppy to trap him yes because that is at the same level as real live flesh and blood babies! (yes I know dogs are children too but we were screwed maritally before a puppy and I locked him out, I threw him to the curb and I was done being used none of that had to do with a dog! Rofl stupidest thing I've ever heard, glad his new gf gave him a dog just 3 mo ago he wanted to get rid of, stupid people I wouldn't try to trap with babies let alone a dog!
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now I look at my dog and just
now I look at my dog and just giggle because as loveable as he is he's a dog! After we separated I even encouraged him to take the dog during his visits with the kids and his excuse was his landlord didn't allow dogs (both his room mates over the last 3 years have had dogs!) I do remember during a fight when I expressed how very done I was if I wasn't going to be a priority him saying "Oh so you just got a dog to rip him away from me!" We have kids you idiot don't you think they are a bigger concern! I just can't wait to somehow segway this new info into a conversation with him. LOL
I had my dog a year before I
I had my dog a year before I met DH but I think my dog would pack his own belongings and go with DH if we separated. My dog adores DH.
I'd been dealing with a dying father when I got the puppy (Katrina rescue) and to be honest he was not trained. He's the only dog I never took to obedience training. He was the alpha in our home and even bit me.
DH has whipped him into shape such that we can walk off leash down a very busy street. No one can even imagine this dog nipping today.
I think of him as like a totally wild undiscipled skid who when faced with structure and rules fell in love with the person who tamed him.
That is cool.
That is cool.
Awe oldone that's so cool. My
Awe oldone that's so cool. My dog loves me to desperate death, but since SO moved in he's so much better behaved for him than anyone. I let SO have a kitten (we already had two but one passed recently) and promised him if we ever split he can take the cat even though the cat really loves me (he's draped over my lap between my belly and laptop right now lol)
When my exH and I split up,
When my exH and I split up, he kept my dogs. Mostly because I travel for work, and knew I couldn't care for them. exH stayed in our house, so the dogs were very comfortable there.
I gave him money for "dog care" the first few years. Until one of my babies died from cancer. He still has one of my dogs, but he's gotten another one, so I no longer give him "doggie support" checks.
But then again, my exH and I have a very weird/friendly and amicable divorce.