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So BM asked us to keep SS until Monday- Which we do of course

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Submitted by mrsparks on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 12:03pm

She texts DH Sunday morning @ 9a.m. with the "I'm gonna need you to keep SS until Monday" DH says ok, knowing this is her normal pattern of laying up with whoever'whenever- So she asks DH to "call" her with a time/location where they can meet Monday morning, she suggests 8:00a.m. downtown where DH works and he agrees, she texts back @ 10p.m. that night saying she'll pick SS up from our house instead- @ 7a.m., DH complies,

Why oh Why did this B*TCH call @ 5:30a.m. saying that she'll be at our house in 30 min to pick SS up and needed directions from where she was coming from- Where she was coming from was 10 min. from my house, Why did we have to pick SS up 1.5 hours away on Fri if you were coming to OUR city to begin with?

She gets to the house, DH has SS ready and brings him out- I don't even want her walking up to the front door.
DH put an undershirt/shirt/sweatshirt on SS as it was a bit chilly that early in the morning, BM snaps at DH saying, where's his jacket,and that she would never have SS out in cold weather without a jacket- BM said where's the jacket he came with? [HE DIDN'T COME WITH A JACKET] she never remembers what DH has on when we get him Friday, she leaves the driveway, then texts DH, saying I'm coming back for his jacket in 10 min. He did have a jacket in our closet from about a month ago, I find it and hand it to DH to run out to the pain in my a**

How would you handle this chick, seriously- I can't take her antics anymore..

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Submitted by smnikki on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 12:49pm

not drive 1.5 hours, she would be told to meet us. It seems that her time is more important than her child therefore, im sure she would make the drive to hand him off. I would make a plan, and hold her to it, if not make your own plan. she said she would be there at 7am. if she calls at 530, tell her to go get coffee or something, and come back at 7. if she shows, call the police and have her reported for harassment.

i would say i would call the police as well if she said she was coming back for the jacket. It seems she does this stuff because your dh lets her get away with it.

my ss's bm did this in the beginning, but not anymore because she knows how fh will deal with it. We also put dad in permanent ink on all the tags of the clothes that belong to us. One time it was our Monday and it was a holiday, bm called Sunday night to say that she would be keeping him Monday because "she wanted to spend time with HER son" it was only because she knew fh was working and ss would be with me all day. fh called bm and said no, you will have him at my house at 9 am or i will call the police and report you for kiddnapping. (the daycare records indicated it was our day) she said okay fine after some protest, but she knew she was being drama. also, the idiot was at the mall with a friend and ss was at home with her bf, so much for spending time with her son, right?

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Submitted by mrsparks on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 2:11pm

than it is to hold her to anything, she changes her mind like the wind-and she's not very stable in the brain area- I just want the b.s. to stop, she disrupts my entire household, DH says not to let her get to me, because that's what she wants to do.. that's easier said than done..

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Submitted by smnikki on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 2:41pm

i HATE when fh tells me to not let it get to me even though, our schedule is effected, this woman i hate is getting her way at the expense of everyone else, and i have to deal with fh in a pis*y mood because he regrets knocking up one on the dumbest females on the planet. So, how the heck am i supposed to not let it get to me? I think now, fh realizes that the consequences from me of not putting bm in her place are much more severe than him getting a little flack from bm. He lives with me, we share a life and if he wants me happy which in return makes him happy, the bm does not effect our life. He does not close the door at the end of the day and lay down next to her, therefore he has realized, happy wife, happy life!

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 12:56pm

She thinks it's not ok for him not to have a jacket...well if your dumb AZZ didn't show up at 6am! When it is freezing out still maybe he wouldn't be cold! Arrgghh..sorry this one just aggravated me for some reason.

"He grew up in my heart, not my belly"

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Submitted by smnikki on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 2:46pm

these woman are riding the short bus.

bm called my fh to say that ss was sick and the daycare lady called her to say that ss would be wearing a mask at daycare. Why did we take him to daycare if he was sick? ugh, well he wasnt when we dropped him off, as opposed to how we got him back from bm.

Anyways, at 745 pm, bm called to say that ss had not called fh back yet because he was outside playing in the dirt? (it was cold outside) uh, hello, thought he was sick?

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Submitted by Gia on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 2:26pm

that YOU two are married, have a life, and will not be bending to her needs, if a certain schedule is set, and she decides to "show up" THAT early... then phones won't be answered, and doors won't be open... as simple as that...

GeEz... This woman thinks YOU TWO must do whatever she feels like doing...

HELL NOOOOO...

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Submitted by mrsparks on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 2:39pm

Will cause her to act even worse than she does now, I don't doubt it, but I have a life that I happened to Love before she stuck her big head into it..

We can't get a court order soon enough, now with the court mix up, we will be waiting until July-

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Submitted by smnikki on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 4:15pm

with these issues, she can only act as badly as she gets away with. She may be all kinds of crazy, but as it effects you, there will be less! bm in our case has started going after other people and businesses, and is now having issues with her bf, and i think its because everytime, for the most part, fh cuts her off at the pass, and she has to channel her psychoness elsewhere!

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 3:55pm

The BM in my life is nuttier than a squirrel turd too. The visitation and holiday schedule for May (Mother's and Memorial Day) showed SD13 is supposed to be with BM every weekend. Last Friday the nutball calls up my H and says....do you mind if SD13 stays the weekend with her friends? H said....Nutball...it's your weekend with her and it's up to you how you spend your time with her. Just have her home by 7:30 on Sunday. BM starts yelling at H about how she's spending the weekend with her good friends, and won't be with SD13 at all. That H has to pick her up and she wasn't going too.

She also told him a few weeks ago that she made plans with a "friend" for Memorial Day weekend and wouldn't be taking SD13 for the weekend. Nice! So she dumps her kid two weekends in a row. Oh yeah.....this is from the same Nutball that wants extended time three weekends a month and tried to get emergency custody two weeks ago after SD ran away and ended up at her house.

She only wants her kids when it fits into her schedule or she will benefit financially from them being around. And H and I are the bad ones in this scenario!
Never eat more than you can lift. :evil:
Miss Piggy

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Submitted by mrsparks on Tue, 05/19/2009 - 4:01pm

She only wants her kids when it fits into her schedule or she will benefit financially from them being around. And H and I are the bad ones in this scenario!
Never eat more than you can lift.
Miss Piggy

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*She has done things much nuttier but it's too much to write, I would be here all night!!!