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smnikki's picture

Submitted by smnikki on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 2:46pm

i could look, but i was curious if anyone knew of sites like this that are for bm's to vent about step parents? i was curious to see how they view things.

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secondwife20's picture

Submitted by secondwife20 on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:02pm

to know what my bm thinks of me.

Secondwife19 in BM's eyes:

She's lazy.
She's money grubbing.
She doesn't care about anyone around her.
She's prettier than me, but I still call her an ugly whore.
She's stupid.

I HATE her.

secondwife20's picture

Submitted by secondwife20 on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:07pm

you're right lol

Sita Tara's picture

Submitted by Sita Tara on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:10pm

I have never heard of this Sita of whom you speak. Therefore she does not exist!

"To be, or not to be: that is the question:
Whether 'tis nobler in the mind to suffer
The slings and arrows of outrageous fortune,
Or to take arms against a sea of troubles,
And by opposing end them?" ~Hamlet Act III scene I

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Submitted by kaffonseca on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:17pm

BM tells everyone that will listen that "I'm an old lady"... I'm 35.

"He grew up in my heart, not my belly"

DISbelief's picture

Submitted by DISbelief on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:23pm

Guess I am an old lady... that came sooner than I thought... I was dreading 40. T

DISbelief~

~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )

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Submitted by 2Bloved on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:21pm

I've never been able to develop a taste for alcohol. Many of my friends go out to wine bars, but it's not as fun for me to drink tap water while they are remarking on the properties of said wine. Sigh.....

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Submitted by melis070179 on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 4:01pm

It took me YEARS to find a wine I liked. I've found one, and it was an acquired taste. I refused to give up Wink

"You never realize how short a month is until you pay child support"

smnikki's picture

Submitted by smnikki on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 3:19pm

thinks of me and i love it! she is so insecure, and at everything in life she just sucks, which pisses her off even more because im so successful, and i have everything she wants!

but i was not interested in reading what she thinks of me, rather, the reasoning or thought process behind it. it amazes me how some bm rationalize things, it would be interesting to see how they all communicate with one another.

Angel37's picture

Submitted by Angel37 on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 4:13pm

http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-prbiomoms

I'm not a member of this board, but I do read it on occasion.

As a mom, I will say that we don't all have two heads, just like not all step moms have a big, long green nose with a wart on it. Some of these things are a matter of perception.

Go...read...learn. But do it with an open mind and do it with the intent of trying to better your situation and see both sides of things.
“Every truth has two sides; it is as well to look at both, before we commit ourselves to either”~Aesop

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Submitted by namaste123 on Thu, 05/07/2009 - 5:08pm

So I tried reading some blogs on that site and I started seeing red. I don't think I will be back there anytime soon. Thanks for the forewarning. I remembered what you said about an open-mind and immediately got out of that website. I just can't read that stuff now. I run the risk of turning into another TinaKay }:) on there.

Angel37's picture

Submitted by Angel37 on Fri, 05/08/2009 - 8:38am

I'm sure they would see red while reading here, too. I do every so often.

Everyone's point of view is different...

“Every truth has two sides; it is as well to look at both, before we commit ourselves to either”~Aesop

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Submitted by Angel37 on Fri, 05/08/2009 - 8:39am

Look at it with an open mind...it's no worse than the comments that are made here, it's just from the other side.

“Every truth has two sides; it is as well to look at both, before we commit ourselves to either”~Aesop

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Submitted by Angel37 on Fri, 05/08/2009 - 12:09pm

I understand what you're saying...what goes on at my ex's house (within reason) is his concern and vice versa. BUT, if it's something like the child can't have soda (kidney issues) and bubble baths, then that's a medical problem and that's something that should be followed without argument.

I also think that there should be some kind of consistency at both houses, but that's for both parents to work on together, not just for one to dictate.

“Every truth has two sides; it is as well to look at both, before we commit ourselves to either”~Aesop