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Submitted by Nymh on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 9:19am

I found out about a month ago that I'm pregnant with #2! This one is due almost exactly 12 months after DD was due last year. I'm finally beginning to stop freaking out about the idea (it was not planned!) and get excited. BF is, of course, very happy! If he had it his way I'd always be pregnant I think.

BM doesn't know yet, and neither does SS. I don't know when we're going to tell but I can only imagine what BM's reaction will be. Luckily the last correspondence I've gotten from BM was on the day DD was born. I was looking back through my emails yesterday and realized that she hasn't sent me a single message since. Ahhh, sweet peace!

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sweetthing's picture

Submitted by sweetthing on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 9:29am

Aren't you a little fertile mrytle. Smile How nice that your children will be so close together that they will always have a friend to play with.

How are things going with SS? Has BM gotten a job yet?

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Submitted by Nymh on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 9:49am

BM claims to have gotten a job substitute teaching part time. BF has asked that she provide proof of that to him through his attorney. SS is doing well as can be expected I guess. He gets more and more bummed every time BF has to bring him home, and really tries to avoid talking to his Mom on the phone. We haven't had any discepline issues with him, though...but I still think BF lets him get away with things I wouldn't let my kids get away with (like not washing his hair when he takes a bath or not eating his veggies).

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

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Submitted by sweetSM on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 12:12pm

I don't post often but I've followed your story for quite sometime. Congrats on your upcoming arrival!!

I'm also pregnant, 11 weeks along and BM nor my 3 skids know yet. I'm expecting sh*t to hit the fan when they do, but for now let it be our little secret Wink

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Submitted by bellacita on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 4:16pm

when we told SD, she informed us that BM is pregnant too! yup...she "was seeing someone but theyre not together now" yeah rite. whatever.

congratulations and best wishes!!

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

Gia's picture

Submitted by Gia on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 4:17pm

It'll suck to be pregnant at the same time as the BM... Dirol
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Submitted by bellacita on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 4:18pm

dont care though...another one of hers conceived by entrapment. KLASS.

"Given the right reasons and the right two people, marriage is a wonderful way of experiencing your life."
~the late great George Carlin

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Submitted by stepmom2one on Sun, 03/15/2009 - 8:40am

She is due about 6 wks after me. I am just glad that I get to have my baby first! But we have close to no contact, my H and her just text. I haven't seen her since she got pregnant--nor me.

It is no big deal, for us anyway.

Most Evil's picture

Submitted by Most Evil on Thu, 03/12/2009 - 5:17pm

Congratulations!! You are the lucky one for this!!

"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin

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Submitted by petitesphinx on Tue, 04/07/2009 - 9:53pm

Congrats girl!

I'd try and keep it from her as long as possible!

When the BM found out that I was pregnant, she bumped up the crazy--putting me in pre-term labor at 19 weeks and strict bedrest for the duration of the pregnancy! She knew what stress did to me and would act up every week and put me in the hospital.

Be careful and keep it private between you and hubby; it's none of her business anyway.

Smile