Ok I have been dealing with BM for 4 almost 5 years now. At times I honestly believe she is bi-polar. We have had many many many ups and downs. I have a really hard time being rude or mean to anybody so I usually just pretend nothing happened after one of her spells. Lately she is getting cruel. So, SS5, BD3m, and I stayed at my parents for a week while we were getting all new carpet and trim so that the kids wouldn't be subjected to the fumes and what not. About the 3rd day there, BM texts me asking if we are going to make a CS payment that week. I text back and said that It wouldn't be til at least the first week in January becuase of the holidays and because the preschool payment of 200 was due that same week. 20 minutes later I have cops at my parents door. Said BM called and said she feared for her childs safety while there and they had to wait there with us and SS until BM came to pick him up. Mind you he had been with us for 13 days straight without her taking him at all. Long story short, she kept him from us the entire holiday week. Then all of a sudden she decides it is ok for him to stay with us again and we had him for 7 more days before we heard from her again. Jump ahead til now. She is starting to make threats toward us over CS. We told her we were only going to pay the bare minimum until she claimed the 800 that she never claimed from 6 months ago. (long story) She claims she has faxed in the paper work many times and also talked to them about it but they say she never has. She wants me to drive down to the county every day until the checks that got taken out of my account are posted to the CS account but she wont drive down there for this. Anyways, somehow we found out that she was not telling her BF the truth about any of the stuff between SO and SS when we said something about her calling the cops. She told him that the county was just doing a routine well check. I call BS considering that is not our address or home and I know that the county doesn't just to random well checks. Is it horrible if I were to email her BF and told him our side of the story? She says he hates us and is going to testify against us in court over custody so I want him to know both sides. There is much more to the story but that is jsut the very very quick version.