Once again... where is the common sense???
My SS5 broke his collar bone on Sunday night. He was home with us playing with his cousin and he fell, tried to break his fall with his arms, and broke it. So we took him to urgent care, they xray'd and confirmed it is broken. Gave him a sling because they couldn't find a harness small enough. So I took him in to see the Orthopedic surgeon the next day. They fitted him for a harness, I gave him some motrin and took him to school.
He went to school all week with no problems. I was giving him motrin with his breakfast and he was doing great during the day. Gave him more when he got home, and then before bed. This morning for whatever reason, he didn't take his motrin. FH took them to school and as I was clearing the table of breakfast I saw it was still sitting there. I was headed to the school about a half an hour ago to give it to him when FH called. He said that BM called and said that the school called her and told her SS was in the office with his shoulder hurting. So she took him home (he just needed some motrin and sent back to class, but whatever, she LOVES to keep him home from school whenever she can) I called her and told her he forgot to take his motrin and that's probably why it is bothering him. So she sets him a dr's appointment??? for this afternoon.... UMMMMMM, he has a broken collar bone dumbass... they are just going to look at him and tell her AGAIN that he has a broken collar bone, and send her on her way. What an idiot. This is what she does when she feels like her parenting skills are being questioned. What she doesn't realize it that her parenting skills are ALWAYS being questioned because she is a BAD MOM. So, go right ahead and waste your day at the doctor (when you should be out looking for a job) and let them tell you that he has a broken collar bone... again. Fine by me stupid. Taking him to the doctor for an ailment that is already diagnosed does not make you a good mom. BEING A GOOD MOM makes you a good mom.
Why is it that I don't even believe that he went to the nurses office? Maybe because past has proven that she will do ANYTHING to take him out of school. Even set up bogus Dr.s appt's and say that the school called and told her he was sick. Maybe because Fh's number is the first on his emergency card, and they called her? None of it makes sense.
Let her waste her day...
I broke my collarbone recently and guess what? There is absolutely NOTHING you can do other than pain management. Trust me. My bone looked like a broken stick with fragments poking at my skin and you know what? They didn't do shit. Prescribed vicodin and sent me home.
"For every ailment under the sun....There is a remedy, or there is none;
If there be one, try to find it; If there be none, never mind it." ~ W.W. Bartley
YEP
I have NO doubt that it hurts. But for one it is BARELY broken... nothing drastic like your scooter accident ; ) (I remember) and it happened 5 days ago and he has been fine at school every day except the days that she is to pick him up (remember on Monday she picked him up early cause she "wanted to see him"). So she took him to the doctor and called FH afterwards... guess what... it is BROKEN. DUH! And there is nothing else they can do.
I guess what she fails to realize is that DH and I have AFLAC, we get money every time one of the kids injures themselves... and for every follow up appt. Of course it goes to their savings accounts, but we never told BM that we have that... technically it is OUR insurance, they are just included in the coverage because they are our kids. SO, her wasted hour at the dotor... just paid her son $50. And past has proven that if she KNEW about that money, she would WANT it, and SPEND it. Since she has spent 800.00 out of his savings account over the past 4 years... I will consider this her way of starting to pay him back. WHAT A LOSER. Who takes money from their kids (in that amount)???? GO GET A JOB!
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )
I have been saying that for YEARS!
And it wasn't AS big of a deal when he was just in Day care or preschool, other than the fact that the more time he spends with her, the more he ACTS like her (yuck). Then he has to be "reprogrammed" when he comes home. And it set a habit for him, that when he is with MOM he doesn't HAVE to go to school. URG. I am not affraid to turn her in for truency, in CALI the parents go to jail for keeping kids home for no reason. ; )
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )
This idiot needs a life in
This idiot needs a life in the worst way....either that or a battery operated device.....
Inside every cynical person, there is a disappointed idealist. - George Carlin
NOW THAT
Is a visual I could have gone my WHOLE life without LOL.
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )
She is also sending the message that school is not important.
Which is verbatim what BioDad and his whack job mother have told my SS. "School is not as important as visiting us". GRRRRR!
Fortunately he is developing his own appreciation for the life style that going to school can provide. Hopefully this will firm up in his character before they pollute it out of him during SpringBreak visitation.
If I can get this kid through college he will be lost to them forever which is the most valuable gift I can give him.
Good luck and best regards,
OMG
We have been telling BM that for 4 years. Even when he was in Daycare, and Preschool. He needed to be there because she was SOOOOO completely unstable. On her days since she wasn't working (as usualy) she would keep him home, which would be fine, except for 2 things... ONE~ WE were paying for him to be there full time, and SHE was keeping him home. and TWO, when she did keep him home she made a HUGE deal out of it like "you don't HAVE to go to school today, you GET to stay home with mommy" so then when we would send him, because we WORK and HAD to take him (cause he sure as hell wasn't staying with HER on our days so he can come home all brainwashed and totally F'ed up!) he would get mad at US for "making" him go. She kept him home right before christmas break this year (he is in kindergarden now) saying that he was too "sick" to go to school, he had ONE more day till ONE MONTH OFF... yet went she dropped him off to us later that day (it was a switch day) he was perfectly fine and talked about how she took him to the dollar store that day. Too sick to go to school, but well enough to go to toy shopping. SHE IS STUPID.
DISbelief~
~You have to BE crazy to UNDERSTAND crazy!~ ; )