It is always this time of year that I feel Bad for My kids Bio-Dad. When we were together he withdrew from the family. When we split is when he started to try to connect with the boys. Now, he is the Chuck E Cheese Dad. (Think low budget Disnelyland Dad) The boys like going places with dad which is fine. What I see is that they are seeing what they can get. Bio-Dad doesn't take them home to just hang out. I am not even sure where he lives. When the boys spend the night, they stay with B-D neice. They always have take-out. Its always the arcade, the movies, laser-tag or a party. I guess this is better than nothing but at the same time I wonder when B-D runs out of money, will they still want to hang out with him. Right now he is not working and I am also wondering how he can afford to do all these things. He has asked to take the boys to Mexico But when he asked that, "REDFLAG No!" No job, no strong ties here if he has the boys. And he has no family there. I just feel bad for him and I feel sad that I do not trust this man. I guess I should be happy that he is trying to be there for the boys and I should not be judgemental. I should let him have the relationship he wants with them.