Myself and SD11 caught SD12 in a very obvious lie last night. I told her in order to watch a movie, she would have to finish a very small plate of stir fry by 6pm. This was because she took an hour to chew and consume one carrot last weekend and made up the excuse that the cat distracted her. Her BM actually believes constant wave of BS that comes out of her mouth so SD constantly makes up lies and excuses even they aren't physically possible. Long story short, I caught her in a lie and called her out about it.

She got really angry, started yelling over me that I constantly make up lies to get her in trouble and twist things around so DH will get mad at her. First there was a witness there that she got caught and oh please, she manipulates DH by crying every time he yells at her. He says he sorry and forgives her. I asked her to please explain the times that I had lied to get her in trouble and her crappy examples were the time I told her she had anger issues for screaming at her sister and violently pushing her. Apparently in SD12's world it's ok to shove people and scream at them because they interrupt you while listening to music. The other reason was when we caught her not doing her homework for 2 semesters. Even though the teachers called us about it and it was on her horrific report card, in SD12's fantasy world, I lied about it...

Anyways DH came down after hearing her yelling, she had stomped off and hid in her room. I calmly explained what she said and he called her down. Between the epic sobs, she recounted her story, and what a surprise she embellished it very differently. She managed to leave out the part about calling me liar. Of course DH didn't punish her but on the other hand didn't defend her either. She was noticeably confused by me staying so calm while she screamed at me. She of course tried to apologize after but I told her flat out that "I didn't care anymore, it's another weekend I've wasted my time money and energy. I'm not going out my way to get you to respect me anymore. All it takes is someone calling you on your BS or telling you something you don't want to hear. You're nice when you want something, so rather than be ingenuine I won't be buying your precious junk food anymore, you want to rent a movie go ask your dad, you want to play video games, ask your dad." I'm not getting wrapped up in her little lying manipulation game anymore.

I'm telling DH that it will not be in the house alone with her anymore because I don't trust her. I don't want DCF knocking on the door because she got pissed at me for something and decided to lie about it.