I make SD8 and BD11 lay their clothes out for school the night before, that way their is no b*tching in the mornings about what to wear. I also make their lunches the night before and they have their bookbags packed and ready at the door. I just think it helps to create a smoother morning. So SD8 came back for her 7 days with us yesterday, I asked her to go ahead and lay her clothes out for the next day and a few minutes later she called my name in her most whiny voice. I walked in her room and she THREW a shirt at me and said, "You need to iron this for me". Ok it hit me in the face. Now let's forget that before she got there I had worked all day on laundry, the house was spotless, a beautiful meal was made, and I worked in the yard. So needless to say I was kind of tired by this point. I threw the shirt back at her and told her when she learned to ask me politely for my help she could speak to me again and I walked out. How about SD8 went into a screaming crying fit and yelling DAADDDDDDYYYYYY she threw my shirt at me and won't iron it! He didn't even want to hear my side and is pissed off at me. Was I wrong to throw the shirt back at her? I would have done the SAME thing if my own daughter had acted like that.