Here's my story
Been with my boyfriend for 3 years have lived together for 2 in my home. My relationship with him is great if we don't look at the parenting piece or his daughter. I have 2 kids S 15 D 14 SD 11. BM I consider useless. She loss custody or OH has temporary custody since nov 7 (and living with us and moved to a new school )with a court date in march BM has not attempted to see SD in 3 months but sends text I love you,but Xmas told her sd her Xmas was gift was she giving er BD custody cuz that is what she wanted and BM will not be 2nd choice. Lots of other mean comments . My venting is SD does not listens to me always challenges me is very jealous of my daughter My niece use to spend a lot of time here with my daughter now she really comes because SD does not like her and make it miserable for everyone here. If my daughter has another friend over she says she is to loud and gives her a headache. Tell her dad how they ignore her.. My daughter is 15 her cousin is 17 and so is her friend. Last week my OH told me friend could not stay over because all the girls SD BD and friend had half day at school and friend came over and SD lonely because BD was hanging with friend. This is not fair to my daughter as she can see if she has someone over SD whines to dad who feels bad instead of explaining this part of life people have their own lives and friends. I get the cold shoulders my daughter does not even have friends over often has only had 1 friend stay over once last and 2 different friends stayed once this year 2 different times. Cousin stays over every other month when it use to be monthly and school vacation weeks. But my daughter refuses to have her over because of the stress Sd causes. Last year the very first time my daughter had a friend sleep over ever Sd could not handle it and OH got over stressed and left for 3 days with his daughter. I could go on and on. Today we are suppose to go to baby shower SD does not want to do be cause cousin will be there. I think she should go this is a family event cousin is always goes out of her way to acknowledge SD but she still feels left out. Last week OH said he felt bad because SD told him she was lonely one day last week because we had a snow day from school and she was lonely. Even though my BD SD AND I spent day in family room watching movies all day. But she was lonely cuz we did not talk to her BECAUSE we were watching movies
She manipulates everything just venting. If anyone can relate please let me know