HIS KIDS...May break us!
I am NOT yet married to my BF. I have three children and he has three children. His children are OUT OF CONTROL!!!! The eldest one is a spoiled brat and wont come over anymore because she has to now share a room with her sister. She tells her father to shut up, and when he asks her to do something, she flat out tells him NO. BTW, she is 14. The next child is 11. She is so manipulative. Like she she snuck open four Christmas presents. My daughter still believes in Santa and this brat told my daughter what her "Santa" gift was. She has a problem with LYING and STEALING. The youngest isn't much of a problem except she doesn't no what NO means. I can work with her on that. But the two older two I can't even stand to be around. I have given to them and done things for them and yet I get walked all over and disrepected. I am tired of the smart mouths and lying. I do things for them sometimes that I don't do for my own kids.
My problem is that my BF expects me to "not give up on them" and "work with them." I hate not liking a child(ren) but I can't help it. I love my BF dearly but I can't deal with this kids anymore. I am to the point where I just want to walk away from them. Do I???? He keeps telling me that he knows they are spoiled brats (his own words) but makes excuses for them.
Can I add that his kids claim
Can I add that his kids claim to love me more then anything and they say want me around.
The kicker is that they will
The kicker is that they will "cry" and say they don't want me to go anywhere...yet they can't stop lying and stealing from me. The more I do and give to them, the more they take advantage. I don't want to be around them. My BF wants me to watch them open their Christmas gifts on (they have to open them on Christmas Eve) and I don't even want to be around when they do.
Well if you're not there it
Well if you're not there it makes it hard for them to steal from you LOL.
Me and DH each have 3 and have 1 together. It has been a nightmare. If you do get married, you are signing up for more of the same. We're almost through it, but it has nearly destroyed me. It's hard being a good person all the time and then be told what a bitch they think you are.
It would be easier without the skids, but you have to lose your bf. Is he worth it? I'm guessing he is or you would have already left.
Don't do more for your skids than you do for your bios, that isn't fair. My kids resent what the skids put me through and dislike them for it.