Ok so its venting time yet again (sigh) SD 13 seems to have developed a serious attitude my partner is trying her best to discipline her daughter but its the things like when my partner asks her to do something SD 13 replies well say please then!!

She has told her to tidy her room and refused to take her dog training with her do if it isn't done but all SD 13 said was i was getting bored with that anyway and would rather go to the pub with my dad (who has her and her brother every Tuesday and weds).

She teases the the dog and when you tell her to stop just flat out denies it with tbh seriously winds me up last week she was being annoying until i had enough and stepped in and told her to stop then SD 13 said see i love winding you up hehehehe ( in a 5 year old voice)

She has no interests doesn't go out with her friends so its hard to find any sort of punishment for her apart from the dog training which she said she was bored of anyway!

I feel that putting any effort or time into this kid is a serious waste of my time and and even told my partner that i wanted my wages to go into my own account so that i am not paying for this brat of child!

I would love some advice on how to deal with some the issues that i have mentioned thanks in advanced.