So SS11 and SS15 got their wish for their birthday they got their OWN Xbox... for their OWN room at our house. BUT my son has a live account and now the skids do as well thanks to their grandma for giving them such a great gift. But sadly the internet we have is through my son's room so the only way they can xbox on live is IF we buy a wireless router (which we can't afford right now) OR they Xbox in my son's room.... on HIS Xbox. My son is completely OK sharing his space with the skids. But he being more mature and a bit cleaner has made a few rules that must be followed. His room is always clean (yes I mean always) and skids room we can barely see the floor due to all the crap in there. So he asked that they keep his room clean, asked they don't use his expensive headphones AND don't use his Xbox since they now have their own. My son lives with us. Skids come the six weeks of summer and then when ever McCrazy lets them come down. So I feel strongly that this bedroom is INDEED my son's space. And he has every right to make some rules when it comes to things he has BOUGHT on his own.

Saturday night we came home (my son is with his father for a week) and SS11 was in his room on the xbox with the headphones on. I asked him.. Did you call BS and ask if you could wear those and play? Oh yes yes he said he didn't care. Well skids had friends over (killed me watching all those kids going in and out of my son's room) and now BS money is missing. Today I called my son and asked him did you say skids could use those headphones? UM NO mom I did not. So I called SO to try to very nicely say that my son has not asked very much and honestly has taken the invasion of his space rather well up until now. I can tell SO was angry... we can't get Xbox live anywhere else in the house. Well honestly maybe somebody should have thought that before they bought it?! And skids are now saying that me and my son are tired of them and annoyed. Im not annoyed I just think there is some lack of respect going on. SS11 has certain toys that SS2 isn't even allowed to go near. Let alone touch. And that is respected. SS15 doesn't let SS11 TOUCH his games or his controllers or his phone etc. So why is my son the big issue if he asks a few things?

I do not know how to handle this. I need some advice ladies please. What can I do about the sharing situation and making sure all kids are understanding about boundries and what is too much and what is ok?????