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BM came over for the first time today

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Submitted by lostinbrazil on Sun, 12/30/2012 - 7:46pm

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Blended Family Issues

I asked DH if it would be ok if his mom just brought SD5 down to the apartment front door and he replied like I was this crazy bitch. She lets me in her house of course I will let her in my house!!?? Did you forget I also pay for this house and so I should have a right to who comes in my own fucking house? HATE THIS SITUATION

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Submitted by oldone on Sun, 12/30/2012 - 7:51pm

I own our home. I have made it SO clear that SS is not welcome to EVER spend a night here.

DH didn't even ask me when SS was without power (no heat or cooking) for a week. SS would call and beg but I heard DH just keep saying no.

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Submitted by lostinbrazil on Mon, 12/31/2012 - 3:50pm

I need to learn from you! How do you make him listen to you so well?????? My fiance never listens to me and I have SO many talks with him about the same crap all the time, he either acts like he understands then does nothing or he tells me to my face I am wrong and I dont understand coz I dont have kids..... UGH

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Submitted by Orange County Ca on Mon, 12/31/2012 - 8:57pm

He is well advised to let you two women get along and co-operate in the raising of his son. If he just can't stand the sight of her he should go for a walk until you call that she is gone.

It would be a nice time to take the boy for a walk also.

I hope I'm reading it right - we've got moms, hims, BD's all mixed up here.

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Submitted by lostinbrazil on Mon, 12/31/2012 - 10:51pm

Yes it would be preferable for my fiance to always go pick up and drop off his daughter like he always has. Like I said, I cant stand the thought of BM in OUR house. And I already asked my fiance nicely to just bring the daughter to the front gate and he replied like I was nuts.

Sorry if I am confusing the abbreviations! I thought I looked everything up...