I just realized that this is why I dread May every year: both SDs birthday, selfish SDIL (YSS wife) birthday, unfriendly SIL birthday - ick. The only saving grace is one of my sister's, my middle granddaughter (turning 6) and my favorite SIL also have their birthdays this month. Fortunately, I only give gifts to my sister and granddaughter. No gifts for SD and SDIL for awhile now - previous gifts weren't appreciated and way too hard to get something they will like since we are all so, so very different and they hate me so why waste my time and money on buying them a flippin gift!! Top that off with Mother's Day w/o a living Mother and now MIL:( and SKids who acknowledge me and call me Mom when they want to hurt there own BM (especially around Mother's Day)~no wonder I don't like May, ughh