I hate that step kids are allowed to ruin Christmas once again
I am really sad that dh two adult kids once again have the power to make Christmas miserable .
Once again dh will spend Christmas waiting to see if his two selfish kids will grace us with their prence this year. Or will he just have to hand them their entitlement money days later when they happen to have the time.
Of course he will give it to them be cause they will beat him down and make him feel so guilty if he doesn't come through like always. If they do happen to show up they and dh expect that they should be treated like the second coming because that's who they think they are. I told dh that if sd shows up don't expect me to be nice to her because of the things she wrote in her latest and greatest email about me. He says he won't give her the payoff money unless she apologizes to me. We all know if she just bothers to show up shelwill get it. And then we will get to keep going and going through it all over again just like the last 7 years. Oh how I long for Christmas before I meet these two horrible people
The best part being to
The best part being to touching card dh got for her saying how lucky he is to have her as a daughter. To put the 500.00 check in
I just want to walk out
I just want to walk out tonight. Dh and I have never had a happy wonderful christmas together. Thanks to his wonderful kids. You work to try to make it a nice Christmas and skids just ruin it again. This is suppose to be our new life together, we are suppose to be making wonderful new traditions and memories together. He is suppose to have good Christmas now because he is away from BM who gave him horrible memories on Christmas. It was suppose to be different for us because we actually love each other. It is not suppose to be like this.
Agreed, try to not let them
Agreed, try to not let them get to you. Hopefully he'll see the light and not give her the $500! If you two are on the same page, it can be so much less stressful. If not, well, I think that's where a lot of us are.