We ended up stopping at SS's house on our way home yesterday. When DH said he wanted to go see SS's new apartment. I said fine but wait till we are on our way to ask for his address ( I didn't want all the other steps to show up). So we stopped on the way home and Dh played with granddaughter for about 20 minutes and we left. No drama nice little visit.

I told DH since you saw SS MSD won't be able to stand it and call you. I was right she called tonight but even I was surprised at what she said!!! She called DH and asked when they were going to have their "christmas" together! LOL I guess since he didn't attend the "family" christmas my children and I weren't invited too she still expects a get together. I told DH good thing she didn't ask me! I'd remind her they already had their Christmas I just wasn't invited! They aren't coming to my house since i'm not "family"!