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DH wants me to call YSD!

20YearsAsAStep-Mom's picture

So I posted a few weeks back about YSD being pregnant. This is the one I basically have ZERO relationship with and never have.

DH picked me up from the airport yesterday as I was away for a week and within 5 minutes said, "so, you haven't called YSD to congratulate her yet, Maybe you should do that". I didn't really respond as I didn't want to start a fight right away, but it I was tired from traveling all day and this is what he decides to talk about? And how did he know I didn't call her anyway? I guess the SD's and DH are discussing me again!!!!!

I am so irritated by him and just don't know how to respond to him. If I tell him the truth he would freak out; like why would i congratulate someone who gets themselves pregnant with no means to support themselves let alone a baby. Welfare cheque will be going up - sheesh.

sandye21's picture

Just say, "Hmmm" and leave it at that. You were gone a whole week and he can't wait to bring it up? If he knows you have no relationship with SD, and have no desire to that's the only answer he deserves.