I guess my DH is now forgetting or ignoring that I am unhappy with SD's mean backstabbing that has been going strong for about 3 years now. We have been together for 20 years. DH and I had a big talk last week and he understood my position and my feelings - or so I thought. Well all this week he went to visit SD every day for an hour or so and now they are talking about us ALL going camping this summer. This would be SD, her DH and 3 sgkids, me and our bs who is 13. I want no part of this and feel that I will end up looking like the bad guy again for not wanting to go. DH said it would be great to go as one big happy family - puke. WTF , am i ever going to get through to DH?????