What kind of woman does this to her child?
What kind of woman does this to her child?
Bm of sd6 tells her that her dad is selfish and all he cares about is me. Tells her that there is no santa, easter bunny, tooth fairy, etc. tells her that I will never be her stepmom and that my mother will never be her grandma.
We are in an interesting custody battle now. Bm had plans to move to California with her future new husband #3 and leave sd here with her dad and me. Now she is trying to get her there 9mo out of the year. First court date is Monday. We have already had depositions on both sides and she had nothing but wonderful things to say about my fiancé. I think she is doing this half heartedly so she can tell sd that she “tried” to get her when really, she just wants to move on with her own life.
Why would she say these things to her? Why bad mouth her father and make him out to be a liar? She’s also told sd that he has no money and cant buy her anything. You can see the confusion this girl is going through. Her mom has told her all about the case too. what kind of woman does this to her child?
Anyone else have a similar situation and how did it work out?
When we stopped covering for
When we stopped covering for BM and started telling SS13 the truth, it was like he started to wake up. Last month asked to live with us full time. He was tired of her lies. Now we are pursuing it. She thinks she is MOTY and he is still 6 years old and has no opinion.
i think she is figuring it
i think she is figuring it all out too. she said that her dad's heart is red and her moms is black.
any woman that bursts a childs innocence bubble is evil to me. theres honesty, and there is absolute brutal honesty.
hopefully well have her full time soon- bm will be in another state and ill have a lot less to worry about.
Similar story here, we got
Similar story here, we got custody of SKids after BM abandoned them on the side of the road, I hear the loyalty in kids hearts to their bio parents too and it's very sore to see but all I can do is be here. I cannot, in all concience, speak ill of their mother to them but I will listen when they do. It's heart breaking!
I still think that the seed does not fall far from the tree, though, and they have learned behaviors from her, which they will have to get over. Currently SD is in a secure juvenile facility to do her 'thinking' about stuff. We did all we could to help her, every time that woman is involved in their lives they make a mess of it, they really do not understand the bigger picture, they are teenagers and do not listen anyhow, so what else can I do? I never say I told you so, not to anyone, it really does not help a situation. People do not want to heed my words of wisdom it's on them, I know I tried...then I disengaged...not banging my head against a brick wall for them all...I have a life too! Pretty soon after I disengaged DH saw what I meant and he began with tough love...never too late!!