I'm sorry to hear that but you have been unhappy for a long time.  It is going to be hard for a bit but you will come to the other side and find yourself much better off.  Don't hesitate to find a good attorney and a compassionate counselor.  Don't settle for less than you deserve and stand strong even when you don't feel strong inside.  Keep us in the loop.  We are here for you!

Sorry.. even if its the best thing in the long run its still hard and it sucks. I'm in the same position... i just keep reminding myself I wasn't happy and from everything i read here that it would most likely just end up even harder with my particular circumstance.

vent if you need to. We are listening ..

Here's to new beginnings!

A new chapter in your life. Live your best life darlin' and never look back!