Yeahhhh. Love stuff like that. NOT. this hasn't happened as much in the past couple of years, but every time...EVERY TIME we were around my 2 SDs, no matter what we were doing, they'd bring up their mom and it usually had NOTHING do to with the situation at hand...it was like a defense mechanism or just a way to piss me off. I never showed anything to them, would just say Oh that's nice and change the subject. Their BM is one of those Look at me Look at me people who have to be the center of everyone's universe. The younger SD is a chip off the old block (she seriously even lied about having cancer. This is a fact). The older one is a little better, but loves the negative drama. I refuse to be a doormat for them anymore.

My SD24 can have all of the fantasies she wants, any pictures she has of DH and BM tell the truth.

She brought over some pictures once and some of them were DH and BM on their wedding day (courthouse). They both looked miserable and the truth was, neither wanted to get married. They did not love each other but BM's mother (who fancies herself as a Christian) convinced them it was what they needed to do, as SD was already 6 months old.

By the time SD was not quite 5, BM had kicked DH out no less than 3 times. But I was the-bitch-who-stole-your-dad. Not quite. My understanding is, that if it's been kicked to the curb, it is free for the taking.

I have no idea what kind of crap SS30 believes. BM and DH divorced after she had a long term affair with their next door neighbor. Unfortunately several years after their divorce DH and BM slept together with no BC (both were single) and the disgusting, revolting SS was the result. DH got a vasectomy literally 2 weeks after finding out about the pregnancy. Probably took him that long to get it scheduled.

DH remarried wife #2 who SS hates with a white hot passion to this day. She is the bitch from hell, but I really do not know anything about SS and wife #2. All I know is that I am SO glad that DH got snipped and had no children with wife #2 who really is a nut job. I can thank SS's existence for that.

BM is now an ultra conservative church lady. The kind who thinks that gay marriage is the end of civilization as we know it. She was a total ho-bag from about age 14 until mid 30s when she found God. I do not know if SS has any clue about her past. But I would love to enlighten him if I am ever forced to be in his presence again. Not that I really want to do that - but I really do not ever want to see him again. So if forced to see him I will have to find some disgusting thing to do like tell him what a ho his mother was.

No way SS can think that I screwed up BM and DH's relationship as I was not on the scene for a couple of decades later. SS told me that he hated wife #2 because she treated him like shit. If I ever conversed with him again on that subject I would say "But that's because you ARE shit."

I think SD8 thinks that her mom and dad are married still. She knows that her mom married her dad, and that I married her dad, but I don't think she knows the word divorce or what it means. She knows that mom and dad aren't together. I keep wondering when she is going to work it out or have someone tell her.

Time to give the Skids a basic lesson in Physics. One person cannot be in two places at the same time.

Show them the time line that clearly outlines DH's location and activities, BM's location and adulterous whore adventures, and your own location at that time.

Emotionally they may never get it but they can't argue with the laws of Physics that will clearly show that you were neither preset at the same place or same time that their whore assed toxic mother ruined their little happy family during their nappy wearing days. Also point out that she specifically did not take the photo albums when she left their father because she did not want to be smacked in the face with reminders of her lack of character on a regular basis.

I would, on top of that, I would enjoy every minute of barring her toxic adulterous whore ass and giving her toxic spawn clarity on history rather than tolerating their delusional fantasy.

But, that is just me.

Have fun!!! }:)

My XW cheated on me during out entire marriage and no doubt during our engagment and dating periods also. Fortunately I did not corrupt my gene pool with her shallow and polluted genetics. My only regret is that I was not worldly enough at that time to pick up on what were in hind sight some very obvious clues as to her lack of character and extramarital activities.

Why would your h keep any pictures of him and his ex?