I know, I know. I'm just not sure how he moved on sooo fast. One day he loved me, the next day he was GONE. Literally. I am better off. Our very last conversation was about his relationship with BM. They overstep the boundaries IMO. They talk/text all the time and she tells him her relationship problems with the guy she cheated on my bf with. And he gives advice. He said he only listens to her because what happens in her life trickles down to their kids. There is a guy who wants to go out with me and he is a good catch - NO KIDS AND NO EXWIFE and many other admirable traits. But I'm not going to even go on a date with him until I get my period. And my God I hope I get my period!!!
I keep imagining him and another woman being very happy together.....that maybe I was the problem. My biggest issue with him was how often he and BM talked/texted. They went from hating eachother last year...to becoming BFF's. She is now pregnant and I know they won't be getting back together. He said it was all in my head....and when/if I have kids of my own, I will understand the importance of being friendly with the babydaddy. All the wowmen I know who are single mam's think he is doing the right thing and say they would love to have someone like him. So now I am picturing another woman getting with him and it working out. When really, I'd like for him to go out with someone and have it crash n burn.
Just remember, what caused problems in their relationship will resurface again and everything will not be as wonderful as it appears on the outside. I know your'e hurting and you need to grieve. Focus on you and everything else will eventually fall into place. Hang in there!
The best revenge you can ever
The best revenge you can ever have on an ex???
To TRULY move on with your life. Because then you REALLY don't care what they are doing or how they are doing.
It sounds hard right now - trust me I as well as many of the women on here know. But it does get easier.
Your ex will move on - thats a fact you cant control. You will move on as well.
I know, I know. I'm just not
I know, I know. I'm just not sure how he moved on sooo fast. One day he loved me, the next day he was GONE. Literally. I am better off. Our very last conversation was about his relationship with BM. They overstep the boundaries IMO. They talk/text all the time and she tells him her relationship problems with the guy she cheated on my bf with. And he gives advice. He said he only listens to her because what happens in her life trickles down to their kids. There is a guy who wants to go out with me and he is a good catch - NO KIDS AND NO EXWIFE and many other admirable traits. But I'm not going to even go on a date with him until I get my period. And my God I hope I get my period!!!
Thank u Stacy!! I keep
Thank u Stacy!!
I keep imagining him and another woman being very happy together.....that maybe I was the problem. My biggest issue with him was how often he and BM talked/texted. They went from hating eachother last year...to becoming BFF's. She is now pregnant and I know they won't be getting back together. He said it was all in my head....and when/if I have kids of my own, I will understand the importance of being friendly with the babydaddy. All the wowmen I know who are single mam's think he is doing the right thing and say they would love to have someone like him. So now I am picturing another woman getting with him and it working out. When really, I'd like for him to go out with someone and have it crash n burn.
Just remember, what caused
Just remember, what caused problems in their relationship will resurface again and everything will not be as wonderful as it appears on the outside. I know your'e hurting and you need to grieve. Focus on you and everything else will eventually fall into place. Hang in there!