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frustratedsince09's picture

So, at SS(7) baseball practice thon Saturday the coach asked me to collect money from each parent to pay for trophys. BM (who i have not even made eye contact for over a year) with walks up and hands me money. I said "we've already taken care of it." She replies "he needs one for my house too." I took it, wrote it on the list and did not say a word.
ONE FOR HER HOUSE TOO? Should I call the school and say he needs two copies of his math awards??
She called DH this morning and said that I confronted her and was rude (the weekly phone call of lies) and that there is nothing wrong with him getting special treatment (2 trophies) because he has two houses. She "needs one for her china cabinet so that when people come over, she can show them that he plays sports".......LMAO. Its not YOUR trophy BM!!! That's why at our house it is on HIS room where HE can be proud of earning a trophy.
Anyone else dealing with ridiculous??????

Newstep's picture

Totally ridiculous. More like when people come over she can act like MOTY. Total crap. I can't believe she calls your DH to "tell on you" that would require and instant hang up LOL. I was so mad at BF the one time he listened to BM spout off lies about me.

Disneyfan's picture

As long as she's willing to pay for the extra one who cares why wants it or where she puts it.

Paying for an extra is better than causing a fight over just one.

Calling your husband to tattle is down right crazy.

Disneyfan's picture

As long as she's willing to pay for the extra one who cares why wants it or where she puts it.

Paying for an extra is better than causing a fight over just one.

Calling your husband to tattle is down right crazy.

ms.blessed.n.distressed's picture

Ugh BM tattles on me and DH takes her side and has yelled at me while she's on the phone. Needless to say our relationship is going down the drain. Hate to see her win tho so I keep fighting but I don't have.much left in me. Stupid b has ruined my life and I want to punch her in the face.

hbell0428's picture

Some things yes, obviously you need to sets of...picuters, clothes, a toothbrush; but trophies - after 10 years of sports - I don't have places anymore!! They are in bins? Let her look like the A** when he gets 2!? Does he even care?

frustratedsince09's picture

This is ABSOLUTELY nothing like school pictures! You dont EARN school pictures. Why should any kid get two trophies when the rest of the team gets one?