So, BM ignored the OFW request.
Today, ( because of the weather ) BM asked to pick up the kids early.
My husband responded right away agreeing, and giving a time he will have the kids ready.
He edits an event in OFW stating that BM asked(weather) for early pickup. And sent BM a message ( because she ignored the request a few days ago) saying, "Please use the trade/swap function for changes to the parenting schedule. Thanks"
BM responded back "ALL FUTURE ISSUES WILL BE IN FROM OF A JUDGE, "AMIWICKED" STOP HARASSING ME!"

Um, do what??? :?

Everything has gone through OFW, there has been no harassing,...

This is going to look really, really bad after she ignored our request,... then accuses me of using his username AND harassing her in the same message,...