Do all DHs feel some sort of F'd up guilt that makes him want to let his kid do whatever the Fuck they want?? SD12 still calls BM or texts reporting what we're doing or if she doesn't get her own way so BM calls or texts DH bitching (to which DH doesn't answer the texts or calls of BM, but does whatever it was SD12 was whining about)......

So, today now SS9 has caught on...... he called BM from school asking her to bring him to a little school event tonight, it's kind of like open house. So of course BM texts can she come to our house (we have it in court papers she cannot without permission, she used to just pull in whenever she felt like it!!) to get SS9 and bring him. Ok, well first off how/why does she think DH wasn't planning on bringing him himself, since SS9 is with us tonight and second why the hell did the school let a 9-year-old just randomly call someone because he felt like it?

The problem is DH will be at work at the exact time BM wants to come pick up SS9 and I will be getting the other 3 kids to practices and a job interview, so SS9 will have to be with me. DH is like, "well maybe she can just meet you somewhere" Well, maybe SS9 doesn't have to go with her, maybe you can bring him when you get here. SS9 wants "mommy" to bring him because she is all over him, I mean as if he was a 1-year-old. She pets his head, holds his hand without letting go even for second, will even pick him up if he asks her to! :sick: A 9-1/2 year old boy......PAAHHLEASE!!

I'm annoyed I guess because I can't see why DH can't just say NO and if I say anything to him then he'll be upset with me, with the "what's the big deal", so waste of my time to say it! SS9 and SD12 don't ever hear the word NO!

I'm also annoyed because my DDs have and would NEVER, NEVER go behind my back to their dad or have me or their dad call the other one DEMANDING what should happen.