So, BM took over full living with SS11 a month ago. Her husband beat up DH in order to get it, the DA didn't want to press charges, declaring it a "family matter" and needs to be taken up in court. So SS11 calls DH yesterday, and starts telling him how he wants to move to SC with his mom, and come back for summer vacation and holidays!! (We live in NY) They have effing 50/50 custody. The law guardian already told DH to go back to 50/50, and he already explained to SS11 that his school will expel him if he doesn't live in our house at least half the time. She's clearly brainwashed the kid. Meanwhile, she has ANOTHER child with DH who she apparently wants nothing to do with, because none of these moving plans involve him. No wonder he suffers mental illness, drug abuse, overweight etc. His mom doesn't care about him, at all. She just likes to go to his school, telling them DH gives him drugs, and then wants to dip out??!!! WTF?

I hate being a spectator to this. I'm pulling my hair out, because it's on DH to take care of it, but he hasn't been himself lately, and I'm just worried all this is going to happen. Ugh.