SD back to B** - Is DH really going to let this F* happen again!!!!!!!!!!!!
Okay so in my previous post; DH finally stood by my side and we put the Smack Down on princess SD14-Lock Down!!
*Now, it's almost like it was when she first moved in. She is dividing DH and I. She will only come out when daddy is home; she will walk right by me and only talk to daddy, she won't even talk if I am in the room. Like she is too good for me.
Last night DH found hairties I had bought for SD awhile ago and he tried to ask her to take them; she said...."I hate those ones; they are so stupid I am not using them!" :jawdrop:
I yelled down the stairs........"I am so glad you are saying the things you are saying....I will never buy you another thing again. Thank you!"
DH followed "You are such a brat; get out of my face!"
She just stormed off to her room; but 5 minutes later was up daddy's but again. Is he not going to see it; she's done this so many times before! Daddy A** kissing; igorinig me; trying to get us to fight - How isn't this obvious...........
I also asked him if he spoke to BM YET about having set times to take her!! I NEEED time w/o her!!
Kick the bitch out the
Kick the bitch out the house...and tell her to shove her hair ties up her arse as she goes....then slam the front door just after you yell at her 'and DONT CUM BACK YAH MOLE'!!!!
oh but seriously....I would tell DH that this behaviour needs his total attention....how the hell can he expect his princess to grow up to be the wonderful woman he thinks she is when clearly she is showing rudeness and bad manners....if it cant be taught in the home,....then when the hell is she going to learn...AT THE BM'S house...I doubt it...
she needs to be taught the right manners and how not to speak to her step mother like this or her step mother will be left with no other alternative but to seek vengence....oh whoops sorry...dreaming again....but request she not come here again until her attitude changes and if it does not then its therapy. As obviously there is something that is bothering her and you as a concerned parent needs to get to the bottom of it....
oh and dont them DH's turn on
oh and dont them DH's turn on you when their ball droppings - in conjunction with the golden uterus - find a way to communicate mud slinging shit about you that sounds legit!!!????
I retaliate by stepping out of the circle and say...now if I was looking in on all this...what do i see...where are the problems and how can I get them to work in my favour to make me look good....
Just wish I was bloody quicker at it than I am....
yeap me too maux.....and yah
yeap me too maux.....and yah wanna know why....its because we are genuinely nice people and its hard for us to manipulate and come back to people making them squirm and feel so horrible
its just not in our nature.
we have to sit and think of things cos sometimes the horrible stuff being said against you sometimes you may feel that perhaps they are right...cos we learnt wen we were younger to listen when someone is saying bad things about you....as you might learn something to change your behaviour to make it better....
no one else treats us like we have two heads though and thats why wen it comes to skids and BM's that do this.....all of what they say is BS designed to hurt and upset us....and them DHs need to understand this and protect us from crap THAT WE DIDNT SIGN UP FOR....we did not expect to be treated in such a disgusting way by these people just because we married DH so therefore DH has to bear the responsibility of the insults and STOP THEM OR WE HAVE NO OTHER ALTERNATIVE BUT TO WALK OUT THE DOOR....
Leave him with the miserable slag and his insulting children....at the end of the day....we are the saviours for his bloody kids...if he made them respect us and not insult us then we are the only thing that will change these horrid children from the back lash that has affected them during the divorce and train wreck marriage that they were involved in....!!!
oh boy im pissed off ranting crazy today...sorry guys!
Good advice Liks. I wish I
Good advice Liks. I wish I could but BM can't take her (her SD has a PFA on her for slapping her and pulling her hair) I have lived w/ her for 2 years; he did for 10 and I can't believe that's ALL he did!! I am ready to loose it w/ her!! You all know what I mean.
that is my fear maux........DH is so strong right now; I am afraid he is going to buckle for princess; if he does; I have no intentions of staying; how could I?
Thank you!!
My SS acted like your SD, he
My SS acted like your SD, he was promptly shown the door when it was legal to boot his butt out. Good luck and yes you need your DH to stand up and put the princess in her place.
and you were "aloud" to boot
and you were "aloud" to boot him.......LOL! I hope DH doesn't stand in my way 3 more years!! God I can't wait
It wasn't about being
It wasn't about being allowed, My husband knew it was boot SS or He'd be going with SS. My husband finally saw how he harmed his child by being a guilty parent and how he was harming his marriage for an adult child who only cared about my husbands wallet and not my husband, my husband chose being in a loving relationship with his wife over being lonely and used by his son. Don't get me wrong if my SS honestly NEEDED help we would come to his side and my husband knows that. I don't hate my SS I hate his behavior. We also dealt with this issue with my daughter and I approached the situation the same way so my husband knows its not just that I'm against youngest SS
allowed....LOL - maybe I
allowed....LOL - maybe I should start proofreading!! Good way to put it.......thanks!!