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Submitted by forever2 on Thu, 08/06/2015 - 10:53pm

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Ugh, fellow steppers, another miserable night for me. Hope yours was better. Keeping it short, I wonder if anyone else experiences this...does your hubby bend over backwards altering schedules to be able to have a day off work with his kid, but then when you ask him to take a day off work for a quality couples day with you he comes up with every excuse in the book (uhhhhh, that's the day I have to put new staples in the stapler). Seriously though, is time with his kid the gold medal and time with you something like a root canal? Well, obviously that's my life. Someone kill me and put me out of my misery. Or someone tell me that happens to you too so I don't feel so alone. Either way, thanks for talking.

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Submitted by Katie8 on Fri, 08/07/2015 - 10:26am

Unfortunately this is our biggest arguement lately. We had plans last Saturday to spend the day with our son at the beach..he didn't call for 2 hours after he got off work, decided to go help out is BIL...didnt' come home until almost 5pm. which by then I had left and took my son to a movie/dinner on our own. When we got home, he had already left and gone to his moms and didn't get home until 9pm. The entire day gone.

Now..I told him he owes me this Sat...so last night he informed me he told his brother he would help him out at 8pm for a couple hours. So again...we are not important.

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Submitted by Andie91801 on Fri, 08/07/2015 - 1:12pm

I agree with you Sally. When come Skids we have to pick our battle and when we don't include the in our plans, DH and Skids will try to find out what we up to and will go out of their way to be part of whatever we do....arrggg...leave me alone.

Whenever DH told me Skids will come to visit I will ask do I have to be there and if the answer is no then my kid and I are gone, sometimes for few days...mini vacation for us Smile

And if the answer is yes, DH knows better to expect me to ask more from me other than will my attorney be there also. I will be civil but if they say one world out of line they know damn well they will be on their way out of the door. Lately only SS is allowed to be at our house, not SD. She is such a vile creature and I don't want to have anything do with her.

A.

“I know God won't give me anything I can't handle. I just wish he didn't trust me so much.” Mother Teresa.