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Is this normal?

Starla's picture

Sunday morning I woke up having a dream about my SS16. In this dream I saw only his face & he was alone crying & blaming himself of the family's disconnections. I had a feeling that possibly his Grandparents said something to SS about his father that hurt his feelings. All of which occurred in the dream so I was rather confused on what to think when I woke up. Its been a few weekends ago since DH & I seen him for we had been pretty sick here. Well every Easter, SS with his mom & sister visit their Grandparents on his BM side & celebrate not only Easter but SS's Birthday. They have done this every year & both kids really look forward to their get together.

I had DH call the kids, see how their weekend went & make sure everything was okay with them. DH talked with his daughter for a bit than asked to speak with her brother. He got on the phone & started to tell his dad about how they called their Grandparents to make the plans. This time, the Grandparents did not answer nor return their calls/messages. SS was upset by that & also bummed that we have not been able to pick them up. They chatted for a while & SS felt better by the end of the call. Plans are to visit them next weekend too & like us, he is looking forward to it.

He really was down on himself at first. This has now happened a few times with having a dream of their emotions to it actually happening. Is there a name for this or is it common? I dream of other loved ones too but when I see ones face, I know its more than just a dream.

knucklehead's picture

I think it's normal for kids to blame themselves for family problems.

I have no opinion on whether pre-telling dreams are normal or not. I'm just not educated enough on it to have an opinion. Smile