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New Years Resolutions 2017?????

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Submitted by sammigirl on Fri, 01/13/2017 - 9:50pm

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I would like to hear some of your New Years resolutions for 2017.

Mine is quite short:

Stay disengaged, and be true to myself. Move forward and not to bring the past to DH and my new beginning.

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Submitted by Indigo on Sat, 01/14/2017 - 2:47am

Hey Sammi,

Level 4: The deep truthful ones are about living my life with more authenticity and honesty; working on my kindness and empathy with my mother; responding with less judgement to SO; support and demonstrate love to my biokid every day; walking the path of my own integrity ... Go to Church more. Spiritual practice. Journaling. Trying to reconnect with that aspect of my life.

Level 3: Train/ride my horses 4x/week. Gym 4x/wk ... eat clean/healthy

(which I do not know how to do ... just had boy-child hold the door open so that I could carry my last "healthy" soup out to the trashcan. Thank God for Colorado cool nights. I thought one of the cats pooped in the kitchen. Nope. My healthy soup. LMAO.)

Level 2: Show more kindness to SGD-13. Demonstrate more kindness to ex-DH as he wanders through his next divorce from my boy's SM.(Summon more compassion ... nah, can't go there for SD-31... she's a sociopath/addict, self-diagnosed bipolar excuse for poor behavior. ) Provide more positive experiences with SGS --- enriching their environment.

Level 1: Actually post more of the blogs that I write.

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Submitted by sammigirl on Sat, 01/14/2017 - 2:24pm

Indigo: You are ambitious!

Level 4: You sound like a very caring person and have lots of love to pass around.

Level 3: You must be in great physical condition!

Level 2: You are again spreading compassion and love here; don't forget to be true to yourself also.

Level 1: I would like to read your post, looking forward to it.

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Submitted by sammigirl on Sat, 01/14/2017 - 2:19pm

There is always room to readjust your goals; just doing something is good!

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Submitted by sammigirl on Mon, 01/16/2017 - 6:17pm

Yep!

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Submitted by CLove on Mon, 01/16/2017 - 5:07pm

New years resolutions: 2017

Set goals and take action to meet them.
focus on myself rather than the pain of Skids
disengage.

Biggrin

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Submitted by sammigirl on Mon, 01/16/2017 - 6:18pm

Setting the goals is easy; taking action to meet them is very rewarding. Taking care of yourself is good and definitely stay disengaged.

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Submitted by CANYOUHELP on Sun, 01/22/2017 - 2:05pm

Stay disengaged and let it take up less space in my mind, though I am much improved, given quite a bit of help from my ST friends!