let me try to explain bd5:

she was born 8 weeks preemie, and with that came an array of mild disabilities: cerebral palsy (very high muscle-tone), developemental delays (cognitivly she is a yr to a yr n half behind mentally), sensory processing disorder (very similar to adhd and high functioning autism) and microcephaly (head circumfrence is 5cm smaller than what it should be). that all being said, we can assume that bd5 isnt up to par with alot of social skills and such.

bd5 has been on a bad word kick lately; saying shut up, stupid, calling people morons....alot of young children do this at some point. she has been known to throw the f-bomb too (my fault and i have stopped saying it when she is in earshot, so its calmed down alot).

anyways, today when bm sd and dopey stopped by so sd can grab more clothes for bm weekend, and while we were all in the garage sd was talkin about something and bd5 said "shut up moron"....then sd hit her on the side of the head. i hit sd and told her that if she lays a hand on my disabled child again im callin the police.

shortly after, bd was sayin things to dopey and play punching him in the gut. he didnt seem to mind her playfulness, and while i dont like to expose her to bm or dopey i figured they were leavin soon so wth, im not going to lock bd in a room while these fuckers are here...its HER house. this is what he said to bd5:

"if u dont stop saying that then im gonna sew ur butthole shut so u cant poop anymore".

what. the. fuck.

idgaf if he was joking around, idgaf if thats how HE jokes around, U DONT FUCKIN SAY THAT SHIT TO MY KID!. lets put it this way, within seconds bf was pulling me away from him cause as im screaming in his face my fist was up.

so i had to threaten police twice in a half hour time frame...