How can I get through to BM when she uses no logic or common sense, she has gotten herself into a tizzy over a misunderstanding and is now causing myself and FDH a lot of stress, she is now demanding that FDH reduce his hours at work so he can have his BD6 more, he does work long hours and dosn't get set days off, there is no way that his boss will give him time off and if he did all the mothers and fathers would as well, we have her for 2 days a week, any other day he does not finish work until after she has gone to bed, when he does have a day off, we spend it with SD6, FDH has tried to explain in simple terms but she just dosn't get it, she also thinks that if she takes him to court over access, they will force him to leave his job, I do not think that in this economic mess we are in, any court would do that, especially as he has another child to support apart from his BM6, the thing is BM only has her BD twice week, the rest of the time SD6 lives with her grandmother. Im not sure if I will go bald or grey first lol.