Yep - DH tried to get me to "work things out" with him. You will be happy to hear that I declined (strongly). I did send him the fabulous article that was posted here by AnaR on putting your second wife first. He didn't like it, lol.

He told me that the article was great if you didn't have a second wife that wouldn't mind her own business. Wow - I don't even know what to say here. DH and his entire family are literally the most passive aggressive people I have ever met. They will smile in your face and say absolutely nothing and then the next thing you know, there are crazy rumors coming your way from other family members. I am so the opposite. I will talk to someone if I've heard something/am upset about something, with the assumption that I may not have understood correctly and no need to let resentment simmer.

Facebook is like the greatest thing that ever happened to them. SD18, the BM, and all of DH's nieces can get on there and post horrendous things about me or DH or send us nasty notes, without having to actually say anything. They LOVE it. They are all blocked from me at this point, but this is what DH is referring to. In the beginning and on and off during our relationship, one or more of them have "friended" me and/or DH. They KNOW that we can see everything they post and so they use that. I would call them on their behavior when they posted nasty things about me or DH or "liked" something nasty that BM posted. Hell, SD18 posted nasty comments while DH and I were on our HONEYMOON and allowed BM and her friends to join in. DH barely said anything to her. He feels (I guess) that they should be allowed to say whatever they want in a forum that they know I am going to see (thats why they do it) and I should just go on like nothing happened. Sorry - I don't play those games. If you have a problem, tell that person about it. Don't post on Facebook and get BM and all her trashy friends involved in bashing someone.

Doesn't matter anymore, I've now blocked DH from my phones and email. All of them have been blocked on Facebook, and I already told him anything he left at my house, now belongs to me. I won't see him again, but are you with me that ignoring this kind of behavior doesn't help anyone? Is this wierd or is it just me?