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it's the little shit that makes me the maddest

dispiritedstepmom2011's picture

so, sd13 has been home for just about a week since incident with the drugs. she stayed at the recovery center for 3 days, then they let her out and she stayed with bm. came home sunday afternoon. havent had any major incidences, its just the stupid little shit that pisses me off cause it seems nothing can just be normal when she is around:

sunday: came home with friend and took a walk. was told no one needs to hang out here, take your walk, be home before 6pm. at 6:00, bf has to go out and search for her...attitude is, "its not like probation will know im a few minutes late".

monday: calls after school ends to say she is walking home. doesnt ASKS, just states fact. really sd? calls again 10 minutes later asking to be picked up cause she is 'tired of walking'. again, bf goes to get her.

monday night: begs for me to let her go hang with friends at 11pm....um, stupid, the general cerfew in this town is 11pm, UR's is 6pm....NO.

tuesday: calls to say she missed bus cause teacher kept her after school cause she was talking in class. she needs to be picked up from friends house she walked to. i called school and teacher said as soon as school was over, sd was the FIRST to fly out of the room...so she missed her bus on purpose or just figured her little lying would justify her being at a friends. bf is still asleep and i refuse to get her.

dopey (bm's husband) has declared he will NOT deal with sd....i dont like him but yeah i agree with him, im not either. bm and bf MADE her a dumb bitch, so THEY can deal with her.

SMof2Girls's picture

I hear ya .. I don't have these issues with SDs (yet), but BM is a real button pusher. Sometimes it's the little things that make you feel so completely helpless!

Hang in there!

bi's picture

yup, the little things that happen day after day, all day long eventually add up to something pretty heavy. it's the little things that make up our lives, and that's why they affect us so much. i could make a list a mile long of "little things" about sd that drive me mad!