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Having surgery..gonna be at home with skids...can you say stressful

amybeth33's picture

Monday I am having a hysterectomy..not by choice..medically neccessary..I will be at my moms for a few days but then am coming home. I am very very stressed at being at home alone with them. My husband works until after 7pm. They are such drama and I am very worried. Here is a typical week for me when I'm not sick. This week my SD15 had my digital camera..I thought this was odd, cause I know I didn't loan it to her. I told her dad, put that memory card in the computer and see what's on it. She starts freaking out. I say, why are you worried...she says I don't want my dad seeing the video. She took a gross video of herself with my camera..AHHHHHHHHHH..I ask, who is this for? No one records videos to not show someone. And why with my camera. That is just this week. Last week it was telling her aunt that we are neglectful to her and her brother and we are just so horrible. Mind you, this is after they got new pillowtop mattressess and new room decor that was part of her Christmas present. If it's not her, it's my SS16. Everyday is something else. I might end up in the state hopsital before it's all over with. Of course my husband doesn't understand why I'm so apprehensive about being home.

amybeth33's picture

There is no BM..she left them for meth when they were toddlers..hadn't seen her since. They are teens and can take care of themselves for the most part.

ownedbypedro's picture

my 2 cents...

you and your dh, ESPECIALLY Dh, should sit down with them NOW and explain about your surgery and he should insist that he expects their very best behavior and for them to not make messes and not make noise and not have friends over and be HELPFUL to you.

although...I don't know your relationship with them and I am probably off base because I wouldn't want my skids anyplace near me even if they were trying to be helpful. BLECH!

PomOzzle's picture

Oh how I feel for you. We have pretty the same situation as you- I am SM to Twin Teenagers who are Neglected, horrid to, you know the drill so blah blah blah will do.YOU couldnt be further from the truth, its called (spoilt teenager brat and we cant wait to lie and stab you two in the back to however will listen to us syndrome) In OZ the last school day was today & I have 7 weeks of summer school holidays to contend with ( I am at home all day, everyday) DH at work all day- OH how I can't wait - NOT!!!!! Although I cant offer any advice, I can say you are not alone in this. Thank God I have a DH who does understand, I am so lucky in that respect!

planningMyEscape's picture

Oh that sounds awful!! Can you possibly stay at your mom's longer, and not come home?