Funny how DH falls over himself to wait on Princess
Last year both DH and I worked FT - yet I was the one to pack lunches, drop off - and so on..........DH hurt his back and has been homebound for months. He is unable to pick up a gallon of milk - so I have been the one to lift and do even more now.
He does stay home with the kids and he probably moves around more then he should. So when I get home after a long day of work - go figure - he can't move anymore........
Then I do dinner and wait on everyone - if BS5 needs something I get it.
Our children, BS5 &9- BD12 and SD14 all know this! My 3 children come to me for things because they know. EVEN after DH has told SD to ask me - since I am right THERE!! SD continued to ask daddy!!
Example: last night DH was relaxing on couch and SD - after sleeping 3 hours storms out of her room passes me by and says "can you get up and cut me a piece of ice cream cake?" he said something back and she turns around storms off and says - Fine then don't do it!! and back into her room!! REALLY....
and the kicker...................he go up - did and brought it to her in her bed!!
Is it me or what??
She's 14 and can't slice her
She's 14 and can't slice her own damn cake? WTH??
I feel your pain, SS15 asked DH the other day to help him open a cereal box. DH was about to it till I gave him the evil eye, then he made SS try harder.
My DH takes the SDs 16 and 14
My DH takes the SDs 16 and 14 food and drink on a tray to their room!! I tell him he'd better not forget his apron and frilly cap or they might not give him a tip.
Same story different verse at
Same story different verse at my house too...do these men realize what a puss they look like when they allow their children (BM's too) to completely control them to the point that they'll wait on their kids like a f*ing butler...WTF It makes me so angry to see my SD11 ask her father to go get her food or a drink or whatever else she can think of and he just does whatever she tells him like a little dog following her around.
Thank you!! I am not
Thank you!! I am not alone..........but what makes it worse is when the others.....especially the BS9 that he's old enough to get stuff himself!! then he does that!! - the other night she came out and asked him to pack her a lunch for her sporting event the next day!! WTH - DH didn't pack ONE Flippin lunch last year for our other children - EVER!! and of course he does.... and then he wonders why I just can't stand her!! Uhhhhhhhhhhh maybe the difference in treatment!!