does this mean he cheated?
ok, so exbf has been fighting with bm because bm has been lying about buying sd her school stuff. yeah, i know, why am i still talkin to him, blah blah blah....
anyways, out of the blue he says "watch, i bet bm calls to tell u we slept together, cause i know she's done that before"
im like, wtf? then i start putting shit together.....him 'helpin' her out with stuff, rides, money ect., telling ME he doesnt wnat to, but making excuses to her instead of telling her flat out NO. him doing the favors yet complaining....
bm has NEVER told me she and him did anything in the 8yrs he and i were together, and they have had plenty of fights. why now? when i wasnt even involved in this school supply/clothes shit? not saying bm is reliable source, i dont trust her either, but y is he bringing this up?
he is meaning while we WERE
he is meaning while we WERE together...and yeah since he is ex communication is minimal since we have bd6 together, but it still hurts
If you have an inch of room
If you have an inch of room to suspect that, then yes. He is likely cheating. Trust your gut! When my first hubby cheated I knew it was happening for momths, but kept waiting for proof! WELL, i got it when i came home early from work one day, but I hated myself for a long time for wasting 9 momths pf my life wondering, did he?
Same here - only instead of
Same here - only instead of beating myself up for 9 months over it, it was more like 8 YEARS.
I always trust my gut now. No need to worry with my DH though. He can't lie if his life depended on it. It's awesome!
If she has never played the
If she has never played the card before, there's only one reason for him to worry about it now.
I agree with this.
I agree with this.
Stop talking to him. Nothing
Stop talking to him. Nothing good can come of it, only hurt for you.
Disneyfan I think has given
Disneyfan I think has given you your answer.
Sounds to me like he is
Sounds to me like he is trying to cover his tracks!!! Thank your lucky stars he is now your ex-- but-- with that said-- I know it hurts!! Sorry he's being such a tool!!
^this
^this