DH and BM of sd13 have an agreement of a pick up time of 5, normaly it ends up being around 530 due to her work schedule.

DH texted SD13 to see if he could by and small chance pick her up early. SD replys no I cant go until 7 tonight. Mind you its around 45 min to hour drive depending on traffic to get her.

She is at the babysitters and has to wait on BM to get her when she gets off work at 630 (she has to work late). Then she tells him that all her clothes she is going to bring this weekend are in the washer so she needs to dry them first.

Ok so here is my thing he will drive over there be there at 7 most likely she will just be pulling in the house or not even there yet. (baby sitter is around 20 mins from her house, and work is around 10 mins from baby sitter. and she never just goes straight home, she has to stop at bank, then get dinner, then what ever else while she is out.)

Then SD will throw a fit if she can't take the clothes that are in the washer (which probly smell like mildew from sitting for who knows how long). So if DH wants her he will have to wait on her to get clothes dry, or bag them all up take them to our house to dry. (which she won't want to do because its not how she planned it.) He offered to pick her up from the baby sitter but she has no way to get in the house to get her clothes. And of course SD13 has no clothes at our house because she takes everything to BM cause BM never buys here anything to wear.

What will I be doing this entire time, sitting at home taking a bubble bath laughing cause for once he had to deal with there BS!!!

I am mad they pull these things but for once he can see how inconvenient BM and SD are. SD has known for two weeks she was coming over, and BM should of made sure she was ready last night to come to our house.