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Date night and stress

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Submitted by goincrazy.com on Fri, 10/12/2012 - 9:49am

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So FDH is laying it on pretty thick, I came home from work yesterday to a huge bouquet of roses. And he got a babysitter tonight so he could take me on a date. :jawdrop:

It's been awhile since flowers or the date. And it's been a super shitty week so I was looking forward to getting out and dressing cute and conecting with FDH and................the stress has taken a toll.

I'm sicker than a dog-sore throat, body aches, sneezing, runny nose, feel like I got hit by a truck. Just fucking great

So do I get all doped up on meds and take advantage and go or lay in bed all night with all the kids home (it wouldn't be quiet)??????

If it's not one thing it's another

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Submitted by Drama3zone on Fri, 10/12/2012 - 10:23am

Sounds like you are coming down with flu! Ask yourself what YOU need tonight? Just because your other half offering to do something that He thinks will be nice doesn't mean that is what is right for you tonight!! - sounds to me like you need a hot bath, some cold medicine, warm drink, hot water bottle your comfy clothes and a nice warm bed - maybe he can take you out when you are feeling better - its no wonder you are stressed - isn't it typical that we spend our time taking care of others and then when someone offers to do something for us we almost feel obligated to go along with it for their sake and asks because we feel the offer may not come up again for a while! Something tells me with all the stress you have been under with your SD and her babies you may end up not having good night if you feel you aree only going to please him. Get well soon!