Bm texted said that dh owes $95 for doc visits! um ok whatever, dh said ok.

then she texted about 30 mins later saying that school starts 2 days early this year and wanted the kids back early from his visit. In return she will give him one of her weekends and he can pay her that money later. Now she did not say how much early she wanted the boys nor did she say what weekend dh can have. In my opinion she just wanted to cut dh's visit short like every freaking year she comes up with something as to why he can't have them his while visit.

Well this year dh was not having any of it, b/c he knows that if his visit is cut he doesn't get his CS cut in half like it is supposed to be. So dh told her that he will pick the boys up a weekend early (her weekend) and she can have them back a weekend early. You ladies following me??

I ask b/c apparently bm did not lol. She called screaming and throwing a fit! Saying that she didn't mean that weekend to cut her tike with the short but wait til after school starts and he can have a weekend then.

I am so proud of dh as he did not give in and said "I am doing YOU a favor if you want then back early for school like you said then you will take my offer" "And why do you expect me to cut my visit short when you don't want it to happen to you?"

After an hour she finally agreed to let dh have them a weekend early and she will also defer the money for a month (her idea). That was weird but hey whatever.

Why in the world do these bm's seem to think it is ok to take visits away from their dads if they are not willing to do the same?? I will never understand why bm's seem to think that visits with dad is not as important as they are. :sick: