My SS has been over the top annoying all weekend. Whinning about everything, making a sad face so DH will cave or just being rude. He is only 5 so i guess some of these things are normal, but DH is just sitting back watching it happen and I am down to my last nerve.

Today SS threw a fit about wanting to spend the night w MIL but DH is really sick and MIL had to work early and DH would have had to pick him up at 8 AM today so MIL wouldn't be late. So SS didnt get to spend the night and first threw a fit with MIL, then cried and refused to get in the car, after about an hour we are FINALLY on the way home and SS is not speaking to DH. Whatevs, normally DH would have let him spend the night after the first 5 mins of SS's fit so I was pretty shocked.

This morning we go out and SS starts saying how the soup I made yesterday was nasty and blah blah and I tell him fine, I won't make it again even though yesterday you said it was delicious and even asked for seconds. He tries to back track but I say nope, not making it again.

Every Sunday I go see my grandpa. Well today we went and a niece of mine was there and SS refused to say hi to her. I was mortified! He said hi to grandpa and a cousin and his wife and completely ignored my niece who was sitting right next to my cousin. DH says, say hi and SS shakes his head and turns his back to everyone in the room. My grandpa is not like most grandpas who spoil their grandchildren and hug and kiss them. My grandpa is a very old man, he is lonely and set in his ways and he likes people to visit but is very private and doesn't like company to stay very long. He has a little sitting area when you enter his house and only family is allowed past that area. It took DH a year to get invited IN to the house and he still hastn't had us over for dinner other than New Year's Eve dinner. Well for him to let SS come in is a big freakin deal and he was rude! I am never taking him again, I would rather go alone.

So after all this, we go see MIL at her store and SS throws a fit when we say it is time to go. She had a LOT of people and one of her girls called in sick and she was manning the register. She couldn't keep and eye on SS and said she would see us later. We leave and everything seems fine and on our way to the car SS starts bawling and screaming that he wanted to go back w MIL. I had had enough! I was so fucking pissed and people were staring at us, I just stepped away and let DH deal w it because I wanted to tell SS to shut up and drag his ass to the car. So I couldn't hear what they were syaing but SS calms down and we start back to the car. I am walking a little ahead of them because I just cannot listen to this shit anymore. Next thing I know, DH had handed SS his cell phone and SS was inviting SIL over for dinner. I snapped! DH is forever inviting people and NOT telling me! He says, oh so and so is coming and I have about one hr to clean up and magically double whatever I made for dinner (hello, there are 2 of us I am not buying and making for 6 unless I know to). So I tell him, seriously I am three feet from you and you couldn't be bothered to tell ME? He says well I forgot, I said seriously? Three feet from you and you want to invite someone for dinner to OUR house and you think the person you need to run it by is SS? And not your wife who will be cleaning, cooking, entertaining and then cleaning some more once SIL leaves? You couldn't be bothered to tell me before calling SIL so we could give her a time to come over or something?? At this point I had already heard SS tell SIL we were heading to her house to pick her up right now. So we are heading over there and I tell DH I need to go home first because I hadn't cleaned up after breakfast because he wanted to go to the dr and I just left the dishes so he says fine, we will drop you off and go get SIL while you clean up.

I was so beyond pissed at this point and SS is acting like nothing happened, DH says see SS why do you have to get all upset why can't you always be like this? And so I said well honey because then he wouldn't get his way.

We get home I start cleaning and DH starts in on how I never want to have his family over it is always a big deal and I always have to fight w him about it blah blah blah. This day needs to be over NOW.