I have two step children a 8 SS and a 11 SD. We have the children every Wednesday and every other weekend. During the Summer we have them every other Week (she takes them one day on our week), and then on her week we take them Wednesday and Thursday. Bio Mom gets 200.00 per week, and we also carry medical and dental insurance. This was set up through their divorce. We pay for all sports, dance classes, etc. We also have a room for each of them toys, clothes, etc. We have been together for five years biomom never wants the kids on holidays not even Christmas it just blows my mind.