ok here goes ive never done this before but i need help my husband of 3 years (dated for 5) have 5 children between us i have 3 he has 2 girls the problem started almost immediately wen i met his then 10 year old daugter she was rude and ignored me as the years went by she became mean to me and my daughter the same age as her but not the boys obviously we were the threat my husband never discilplined her only said yeah shes a bitch but what do u want me to do? i treated her like gold i took time to take her out and talk ect...