So, in their infinite wisdom...hubby, BM and step-dad have decided that my 15 year old step-son should have NO consequences for his lying, cheating, or stealing. Instead... Let's figure out the "core" of why he is lying!! Hmmm. He's been doing this crap for at least 4 years (as long as I've known him). Your remedy thus far has been to "love on him"! That shit has not worked either. so... Your new tactic is to "talk to him and treat him like an adult, get respect in return." God help us all.. This is the kind of kid who would turn a gun on us... But nevermind...