Taking bets.
So my SS wants DH to come see him for a few days on SS’s birthday in February. We are very south and SS is very north.
Our Convo…
ME: I bet BM will end up there the same time that you are.
DH: (acting stupid) Why would she do that?
ME: ummm, well, because SS is always trying to get yall together. Remember just last year he wanted you, him and BM to vacation together in Hawaii?
DH: Yea..but that is his mom driving that mess not SS. They should both know that would not be right.
ME: But they both do NOT know that. You have been such a wuss over the years that neither of them have any boundaries.
DH: So you are saying I am a wuss for wanting to go see my kid?
ME: (ROLLING EYES AND LAUGHING!) Yes DH..that is exactly what I just said…I also said you were a dumbass for wanting to see your kid. You know that is not what I said, but nice deflection. Lol. I said you were a wuss for just not telling SS and BM that vacations are not a thing to spend with an ex. You always skirt that when talking to them.
DH: Well IF BM goes, then her DH better be there.
LOL…If SS and BM manipulate this to where DH and BM end up on vacation up there with SS at the same time…I may have to get a divorce.
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This was a common occurence
This was a common occurence when I was married. BM always 'ended up' exactly where my xH was and it was set up to look like it was b/c of the SK's. Luckily xH was good at extracting himself from those situations. Then she finally got remarried and her new DH stepped in and stopped her BS. You can't tell me that these men are that stupid, lol.
Then she finally got
Then she finally got remarried and her new DH stepped in and stopped her BS
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I keep waiting on her DH to do this but I guess he does not care. She puts pics of her SS and DH as her FB photo.
I am surprised at you Willow!
I am surprised at you Willow!![Smile](https://prod-cdn-1.ststatic.com/sites/all/modules/contrib/smiley/packs/kolobok/smile.gif)
Rather than call him a Wuss, why didn't you suggest that he just send a picture of himself to SS to take with him to this vacation spot?