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Kids.. How their actions effect the entire family

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Submitted by Will it ever change on Fri, 07/02/2010 - 8:16am

You are not a good mother when you use your children to sabotage your ex’s relationship. Or because of jealousy that your child might have a good relationship with their step mother or Father’s partner. You should appreciate that they are good to your child and look out for their best interest. I know when my Ex has a relationship I am very cordial to the girlfriend because this way they will not be nasty to my kid I will not give them any reason. Than if there is an issue we can discuss and work together to fix it. No matter what no one can replace a mother.

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Submitted by Will it ever change on Thu, 07/01/2010 - 7:35am

Will it ever change… Seven years later and his ex only gets worse. We have been together since his girls were two and three and my son was four. The first two years were very difficult because we were like a divided family.. him and his two girls and my son and myself. I was always close with his girls but as they get older the situation with his younger daughter has changed she has a lot of anxiety issues and my BF has just got permission to get her help… HA.. got permission because her own mother can’t be bothered to get her help. She does not work she is more like a sponge.