Hi Everyone! I use to frequent this site often in my early step-parenting days. The last 3 years or so have been pretty calm but like a light switch have flipped just like that. I will say that prior to the last 3 years my husband, my stepson (now 12), and myself were put through HELL by BM. We had the childsupport and visitation revisted both in our favor. Since the revisit and birth of my daughter things have been calm that was 3 years ago. Now BM is back in action and as nasty as ever.